There was a young man exposed to diseases that require small intestine is cut along a meter. After surgery, the disease was also not lost. The surgery was done just get rid of the gut that is damaged.
During the process of healing from surgery, the young man had fasted for 10 days. Not eating and not drinking. He received intravenous fluids from his body only. After that then he could receive a drink and after a few days then started to eat liquid food.
During fasting after surgery, while still lying in the hospital, his wife contacted me and told her husband's condition. Through his wife, I recommend that the young man develops a loving mind.
After leaving the hospital, the young man came to see me. He said that while lying in the hospital - when she felt a great pain and feeling sad because his illness was incurable - it is difficult for him to develop a loving mind.
He said: "I myself really need help. My situation is very bad. How could I be able to develop thoughts of love? Did not I own that actually to be pitied?"
I said, "Since you start thinking about yourself, since you began to demand, then that's when you start to feel miserable. On the contrary, since you begin to think of others, expecting others to be happy, it's when you start to feel happy. With mengembagnkan loving mind, I hope you feel the suffering can be reduced. "
Youth when I was dating, they were very concerned about their partner. They try to partner each other happy. Therefore wanted to partner happy, fulfilled their feelings of happiness. But after marriage, they usually start a lot of hope to her partner.
They are demanding their partner for this and that, demanding partner to be such and such. When they start thinking about themselves and start demanding, that's when pain started to come.
Suffering comes when we prosecute someone else for our happiness. Instead, happiness comes just when we want to make others happy.
During the process of healing from surgery, the young man had fasted for 10 days. Not eating and not drinking. He received intravenous fluids from his body only. After that then he could receive a drink and after a few days then started to eat liquid food.
During fasting after surgery, while still lying in the hospital, his wife contacted me and told her husband's condition. Through his wife, I recommend that the young man develops a loving mind.
After leaving the hospital, the young man came to see me. He said that while lying in the hospital - when she felt a great pain and feeling sad because his illness was incurable - it is difficult for him to develop a loving mind.
He said: "I myself really need help. My situation is very bad. How could I be able to develop thoughts of love? Did not I own that actually to be pitied?"
I said, "Since you start thinking about yourself, since you began to demand, then that's when you start to feel miserable. On the contrary, since you begin to think of others, expecting others to be happy, it's when you start to feel happy. With mengembagnkan loving mind, I hope you feel the suffering can be reduced. "
Youth when I was dating, they were very concerned about their partner. They try to partner each other happy. Therefore wanted to partner happy, fulfilled their feelings of happiness. But after marriage, they usually start a lot of hope to her partner.
They are demanding their partner for this and that, demanding partner to be such and such. When they start thinking about themselves and start demanding, that's when pain started to come.
Suffering comes when we prosecute someone else for our happiness. Instead, happiness comes just when we want to make others happy.
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